Are you ready to build a strong, faith-filled foundation in the early years of your marriage?
Our Built to Last: The First Year Group Program offers Christ-centered support and guidance for newlyweds like you—to lay a strong foundation for a lifetime of love and connection.
You’ve tied the knot, moved in, and started sharing life. Now’s the perfect time to prepare for the challenges and adjustments that naturally come with building a strong, lasting marriage.Â
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Dealing with differences you hadn’t anticipated—from daily routines to expectations around marriage roles.
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Facing communication barriers or tense discussions and disagreements you didn’t see coming.
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Navigating the reality of financial management, family dynamics, or extended family relationships.
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Struggling to find your rhythm in the sexual and emotional intimacy department.Â
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Desiring to grow spiritually together to build a strong, resilient marriage that lasts.
...If this resonates with you, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
So here's what we know...Â
You’re presently investing in your future together by establishing routines, communication patterns, and expectations that will set the tone for your marriage for years to come.
Our 12-month small group coaching program is centered around the LOVE chapter in the Bible (1st Corinthians 13) and is designed to guide you month-by-month through the 12 essential traits of love and to deepen your connection, communication, and commitment.
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“I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding...”Â
— Philippians 1:9
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Introducing
Built To Last: The First Year
Here’s what we’ll cover each month to set you up with the tools and strategies for a thriving, lifelong marriage.
MONTHÂ ONE
Love is Patient - Embracing Your Differences
Learn to appreciate each other’s unique qualities and personalities with patience, creating a foundation of unity and understanding.
MONTHÂ TWO
Love is Kind -Â Sensitivity
and Service
Learn to "wash each other's feet" as Jesus modeled and discover ways to tangibly express kindness and love to your spouse.
MONTHÂ THREE
Love is Patient -Marriage Roles and Responsibilities
Discuss healthy marriage roles, understanding each other’s contributions and unique strengths without comparison or competition.
MONTHÂ FOUR
Love is Not Proud -Difficult Discussions and Conflict
Develop skills for managing conflict with humility, creating space for open and honest communication without letting pride get in the way.
MONTHÂ FIVE
Love Does Not Demand it's Own Way - Managing Your Finances
Learn how to approach financial discussions and decisions with a common vision for your future together.  Â
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Love is Not Irritable - Extended Family Relationships
Learn how to create healthy boundaries and strengthen relationships with extended family to support marital unity.
MONTHÂ SEVEN
Love Keeps No Record of Wrongs - Forgiveness
Discover the power of forgiveness in building trust and being released from past hurts in your relationship.
MONTH EIGHT
Love Rejoices with the Truth - Honest Communication
Learn to communicate openly and speak the truth in love, creating a foundation of trust and openness.
MONTHÂ NINE
Love Never Gives Up - Sexual and Emotional Intimacy
Learn to discuss your sexual relationship with honesty and sensitivity recognizing that men and women are NOT created equal in this area!
MONTHÂ TEN
Love Never Loses Faith -Â Spiritual Growth
Learn how to develop your spiritual growth practices individually and as a couple so Jesus always remains in the center of your relationship!
MONTHÂ ELEVEN
Love is Hopeful - Overcoming Challenges and Setbacks
Learn ways to grow stronger together and build resilience and love as you support each other through life’s tough seasons.
MONTHÂ TWELVE
Love Endures Through Every Circumstance - Shared Vision
Develop a God-centered vision and mission for your life together, building a marriage of purpose and significance.
What's Included:
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#1-30-Minute Introductory Session
In this 30-minute introductory session, we’ll take the time to get to know you as a couple—exploring your unique story, how you’ve come together, and where you want your marriage to grow. This session is all about helping you feel at ease, building trust, and giving you a clear picture of what to expect in the sessions ahead.
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#2-90-Minute Monthly Group Coaching Session (12 in total)
Every month, you will join a live online group discussion with 5-8 married couples committed to strengthening their marriages.
We’ll explore a foundational principle of love from 1 Corinthians 13 and help you apply these values to real-life scenarios that often arise in the early years of marriage. This includes managing finances, navigating sexual intimacy, balancing extended family relationships, understanding personality differences, and more.
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#3-Ongoing Support
You’re never alone. Reach out between sessions for advice, prayer, or encouragement as you tackle challenges together. We're with you every step of the way for the entire year!
LET'S GET STARTED!
Is This Program Right For You?
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Perfect for you if:
- You’re committed to growing together in Christ and building a marriage that lasts.
- You want to establish strong communication, financial unity, and shared faith in your relationship.
- You’re seeking a support system to guide you through the early part of your marriage as husband and wife.
- You're ready to invest in the future health of your marriage.
- You are both fully committed and ready to show up every month.
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Not for you if:
- You're not ready to fully commit to 12 months of marriage coaching.
- You’re not willing to invest time and effort into strengthening your marriage and setting the tone for the years to come.
- You’re not interested in growing together physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
- You’re looking to heal deep wounds or work through unresolved trauma.
- If your relationship feels stuck in unresolved hurt or brokenness, counseling may be a better fit to address those deeper emotional needs.
A Final Note From Us...
We know that marriage is a lifelong journey filled with joys, challenges, and growth. But the early years are special—it’s your foundation. As a husband-and-wife team married for over 28 years, we’re here to help you start strong with faith, wisdom, and practical tools to build an amazing life together.
God has incredible plans for your marriage, and we’re honored to walk alongside you as you begin this journey.
Let's do this! 
“The things you do in the first 12 months of your marriage will be the things that stick with you for a long time.”
— Dr. Les Parrot
Wait, what's included again?
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30-Minute Introductory Session
A deep dive into your relationship story and goals for the future.
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90-Minute Monthly Group Coaching Session (12 in total)Â
Each month, join a live online group of 5–8 couples to strengthen your marriage. Together, we’ll explore love through 1 Corinthians 13 and apply it to real-life challenges like finances, intimacy, family dynamics, and personality differences.
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Ongoing Support
Stay connected and supported between monthly sessions with guidance, encouragement, and prayer.
WE ARE ALL IN!
DON'T WAIT ANY LONGER
Continue Your Journey Towards a Built to Last Marriage Today!
